Abandon your personality and embrace theirs.
Feel what they feel.
Look at life through their eyes.
Imagine you're writing a journal in your diary (That nobody else knows about).
Pour your heart out, think about the darkest and innermost thoughts you have.
WARNING: Do not skip this part, otherwise the entire campaign will fail.
Here's an example:
Ugh! I’ve made two miserable sales during the year.
This is not working. I thought Remax would be my big break but it’s just not working?
What the hell am I doing wrong? Why do these guys at Elliman are so successful? Is it because they are connected?
I HATE them. I’m so jealous. Everytime I get a fucking listing people shoot me down with a thousand objections can’t they see I’m trying to do them a favor?
I have to feed my kids! Why do they keep giving their money to the bigger guys?
What’s wrong with me?
Maybe I’m annoying?
Maybe the listings suck?
No, maybe THEY suck. Stupid leads that trash marketing agency gave me. They are all scammers. I knew it. It’s not my fault. It’s EVERYONE else’s fault.
I don’t even spend time with my kids. I’m just working 12 hours for nothing.
Maybe I should go to another Tony Robbins seminar? Maybe buy Ryan Serhant’s book?
No they are probably scammers. Ugh, but it’s only $497...
If I don’t solve this ASAP I’ll have to abandon my dreams and become a secretary.
If I only knew what makes the other so successful...
Dramatic, huh?
You have to feel their pain for a while.
Feel their suffering so we find out what’s their biggest problem (And then sell them the relief).
Once you do, move on to the next part.
Remember to be brutally honest and specific.